Well, you know Mary, I'm not even going to try to argue your points because you have to be so edgy - god knows you cannot discuss without being snotty as all get out. AND the fact that if one doesn't agree with you they are rationalizing their actions, not explaining their beliefs. One can dissect anything said in this forum and do the same..
Unless your grandson is named Billy, I obviously was speaking in broad terms about being traumatized.
I hardly have the time not energy to get into arguments that are akin to political ones.. NO ONE IS GOING TO CHANGE THEIR MINDS. It will just cause strife, and screw that.. I'm here for the fun of what I do.
The bottom line for me that I will NOT change my mind on is: this is an art site consisting of mostly adults who will continue to post photos that might offend children and some adults. It's not going to change unless we get a rating system - which I'm all for. Nudity and sensual shots have always been a part of the art world and it's never going to change. I believe if parents want their children to have photo sites they need to find child-only ones to start out with (if they exist).. If the parents don't know that the children are online doing this.. they need to put a babysitting system on their computer. It's pretty simple and can be disabled with a simple password by the parent when the adult is online.
This is not "rationalilzing" this is what I see as a SOLUTION and an OPINION.