After years of being on pbase, I've come to the conclusion (through friends and much therapy ...

) that popular photos/galleries have nothing to do with true success of any kind.
As with every system on any site I've seen, there is no way to stop friends from voting for friends regardless of photo quality; and especially no way to deter the tit-for-tat way of "i'm voting for you so you vote for me" clique mentality that is pretty obvious in some cases.
As told a while back by a wise friend "get the fuck over it."
Okay, it might have been more than one friend
When you like your work.. when you LOVE your work .. and you see what you consider inferior photos flying by yours it is confusing, and needless to say, frustrating.
One can get so into the comments and the voting because of that immediate gratification - it's addicting. Who doesn't like to read great things.. who doesn't like to watch their photo move up a symbol of popularity? But when you are into that, the "why isn't she commenting anymore?" "Damn I got 30 comments yesterday and only 3 today. WHAT AM I DOING WRONG?" isn't far behind. Not a pretty nor healthy road to go down.
When one judges their work by other's reactions, the outcome can never be good for very long. It's the same as expecting someone else to make us happy. Eventually they will fail us because it's not possible.
I've heard those happy-crappy quotes a million times and am a little embarassed to say it but they're
true
I love my work. I would explode if I didn't do it obsessively. I bleed it. I have doubts about things at times, but everything I post I absolutely love - EVEN if it doesn't grab another soul.
I (of course) love and appreciate the comments..I feel the same about the votes. But what gives me even a bigger thrill is when days/months/years later look at something I've created and think "GOD DAMN, that's good!".. that it stands the test of time (my test).
And only I get to do that.
I do want to address this though, Adal:
My worry is that I see in the Pops galleries full of extremely cheap "wow effect" photos.
Obviously, this is just an opinion and you're aware of that .. but i have to say that one man's "wow effect" photo is another man's "god another street shot with no heart" photo. They sort of cancel each other out because we each have our own taste.
and:
Photos shot just to get easy votes, no other visible reason for them.
Wondering what the critieria is for judging on the "no other visible reason" for a photo. Seems a bit omnipotent.
