Minoltaman wrote:Please stop making things up so this discussion can get back to what the topic is. You seemed to have tried to turn it into a bash Don thread.
Actually, if you would read each of my posts you would see no evidence at all of my “bashing” you. All I did was to state some facts, namely that you were tossed off more than one photo site due to the nature of your posts. I also asked you to stop making this thread into a rehash of your personal problems with me and the folks on my site. The only person doing any “bashing” here seems to be you from what I read in these posts...at least the ones you haven’t edited and re-edited to make it look as though I was the one who brought up old personal gripes and not you.
Minoltaman wrote:Don't talk to me about honesty when you yourself has emailed me about YOUR OWN incorrect assumptions and mistakes.
You have just given an example of my honesty, not any DIS-honesty. Admitting one made a mistake is an honest thing to do, and mistakes themselves are not dishonest...they are just mistakes.
Minoltaman wrote:Don't talk about honesty when you do not take credit for wrecking Danny's forum.
This makes no sense. Do you think I should “take credit” for the fact that your constant stream of nasty posts and PM’S drove people away from RTP because they no longer enjoyed a place where one temperamental member posted more than half the pictures in every thread and angrily challenged anyone who found flaws in their critiques? Why did so many of RTP’s members switch to my site? Because they wanted to get away from you, Don. Which is why I could not let you be an Inno member. I tried to give you a second chance and a fresh start. It was just too late, for too much damage had been done...folks don’t forget insults that easily.
Minoltaman wrote:Do not talk about honesty when your members are casting votes for bunk galleries.
My members told me today they really DO like most of my galleries, so, as I already explained in a previous post (which you, again, evidently failed to read well) they did not consider their votes to be “bogus,” nor were the galleries “bunk” in their view. The only three galleries I don’t think deserve recognition are the ones I mentioned earlier. But I do think that the majority of those new ones added really are good enough to deserve attention, such as Furry Friends and Rural Scenes for example. Evidently many of my members agreed. You are free to disagree. But your disagreement doesn’t make them “bunk.”
Minoltaman wrote:Do not talk to me about honesty when you called the owner of retouchpro a crook.
This again makes no sense. Saying that I came to see your point, which was that Doug probably did NOT need all that money to run the site, was my way of agreeing you had a good point after all and that I was mistaken when I disagreed with you about the donation issue. I never called anyone a crook. Even IF I had (which I didn’t), wondering aloud about the honesty of someone else says nothing about my own honesty.
Minoltaman wrote:Do not talk to me about honesty when you condoned and participated in a hate thread in your own forum.
Again, this has nothing to do with honesty. However, that thread was very short-lived... I deleted it after a few days. But folks were upset, and they wanted to let off steam. That’s human nature and good therapy. No one has mentioned any of that for many months now. We have all moved on to try to make our site a positive productive one.
Minoltaman wrote:Don't talk about honesty when you do not take credit for wrecking Danny's forum.
[...]OK...back in the earlier days before the innographx forum there was a very popular set of photoart forums at retouchpro.com led by Danny Raphael. The photoshop action guru you may have heard of from dpreview and retouchpro. Retouchpro is run by Doug Nelson, one of the greatest photoshop experts of our time.
Fact 1: I ran the photo art forum for Danny at his request. It was a busy happy forum until Fishboy came along, at which point it started to go downhill from his overabundance of posts and new threads. After some members complained to moderators about him, Fishboy “left” only to return surreptiously as “Photomauler.” He later admitted he was the same person and began signing his name as “Don.”
Fact 2: Danny tried to get Doug to ban you from the site months earlier than he (eventually) did because Danny realized his participating members were really upset with your behavior, but Doug is all for free speech and wouldn’t do it...not at that point anyway. Doug preferred to handle it by regularly deleting your nasty posts. But members didn’t forget your harsh words just because your posts were gone.
Fact 3: The reason you and I had a disagreement at RTP in the first place was that I was a heavy financial contributor to Doug’s site and you were trying to convince me that some of us were giving RTP too much, since sites don’t cost THAT much to run. It turned out, I found out later with my own site, that you were correct. I admitted to you I made a mistake in doubting you.
Fact 4: Danny completely understood when I formed my own site and offered his support and any help he could give. I didn’t take it, but I thanked him for the thought. Danny is a great guy, and he was not at fault in any of those unfortunate events.
Fact 5: I never “stole” any members from RTP. They came willingly and are a great group of talented fun people! I don’t consider it “my” site as much as “our” site. We started as a small ragtag group of RTP “refugees”
but have grown considerably since that time. Most of our members now have never heard of how/why Inno was started, and few know that the site began because of you, Don...because you annoyed folks so much at RTP that our only choice was to go elsewhere. For that I owe you a debt of gratitude, because I love the site and its wonderful group of caring, talented, HONEST, people!
Phyllis